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Due to the opioid epidemic, my mother's NP has prescribed 2 caplets a day of Norco. My mother is 94 and is in severe pain everyday. When I have asked the NP to increase the dosage or add another pain med in addition to the norco, she always recites how she's worried about addiction. I think this is so ridiculous. Who really cares if a 94 year old woman becomes addicted to a med if it relieves her suffering? My mother mons every morning and during the day from bursitis. Does anyone know of an over the counter med that is effective in between taking the norco? She already lives on a heating pad. Additionally physical therapy has never helped her before. I'm lost.

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Wow, thanks everyone for your pain management stories, info, and advice. I'm getting educated. 94 years young or old deserves help.
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Good for you for being involved. Try educating yourself on pain meds and how they work. Get a doctor on board. Just be giving your Mother a cream or tylenol (or something) will mentally make her feel better. This is the best place for advice!!
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I haven't read the responses, so forgive me if mine is repetitive. Bursitis is a very painful condition, and I'm sorry your mother is suffering. It sounds to me like she needs to see a different doctor (not an NP) who is willing to give her more pain meds because you're right......at 94, who gives a flying fig about addiction?! Ridiculous indeed. You just don't want her getting so constipated or disoriented that she either can't have a BM or starts falling a lot.

So, until/unless you can find her more Rx pain meds on a regular as needed basis, I'd alternate ibuprofen with acetominophen, use Lidocaine patches at the area of pain, and also alternate the heating pad with ice packs. Going back & forth between ice and heat seems to help with swelling/nflammation AND pain. When my 93 y/o mother has pain, the patches really DO help her. She uses the Icy/Hot ones while my DH uses the RX Lidocaine ones.

Best of luck. Hope some of the suggestions work
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crazindahead Jan 2020
Great thorough advice! thanks!
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IMHO, to deny a person of this age pain medication is unfathomable. Maybe she can see a pain management specialist?
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Careful of NSAIDs - in the elderly they can cause stomach bleeds.
Extra-strength Tylenol taken at the same time as the other pain meds can boost the effect of the pain meds.
A cortisone shot can help too, but you can't have those too often.
And yes to seeing an orthopedist. Physical therapy, some massage and strengthening exercises, stay hydrated, ice. Everything a professional athlete would do!
It's worth it, you only get one body for life.
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Judysai422 Jan 2020
We staggered the Tylenol with the pain meds which seemed to hold off the bulk of the pain til next dose.
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My dad will be 94 in 2 days!! Last April he had a severe case of Bursitis in his upper arm. Very painful. Trouble eating, dressing and loosing his balance. They first gave him the Lidocane patch but also Rx for him to have PT.
I honestly didn't think it would do squat BUT it did!!. He went to outpatient PT 2 X a week for 8 sessions.They gave me exercises for him to follow up at home each day too.( stretchy bands, etc)
While my dad was not happy to do them, I cheerleadered him on. It did take a few months but he has no issues now. I still have him do his few exercises 3X each day, he needs to stay strong to stay with me. ( been here 13 yrs after a stroke)
Good luck with your mom. Susan from Indiana
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It's shameful that doctors would deny your mom the pain relief she needs. They did the same thing to my mom when she went into hospice - only they took all of her pain meds away because the hospice doctor said dementia patients can't feel pain. I appealed on her behalf but lost.

At age 73, I have both bursitis and a frozen shoulder in the same shoulder and it causes unbearable pain. My doctor gave me a steroid injection this past week. While initially it hurt when he gave me the shot and the following day, by the next day I could actually stand the pain. Your mother's doctor shouldn't object to giving her a shot or referring her to someone who can. The shot can last anywhere from 3 to 6 months. If he won't, I would file a complaint or an appeal with her insurance.

There are some CBD creams without THC that also help with the pain but they aren't cheap. If you want a recommendation, send me a message.

Keep fighting for your mom - you are a good daughter!
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cherokeegrrl54 Jan 2020
This really infuriates me. I hope all these damn drs who say and do this to our loved ones, suffer unbearable pain when they get older and no one will even give them a regular tylenol!!! 😡😡 This is inexcusable!!! And besides, its not an “opioid crisis”, its a fentanyl from china crisis!!! Thats all im gonna say, becauses this situation really pisses me off.
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put her on hospice. They are very liberal with pain meds
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Try rubbing DREAM CREAM into her painful areas. Active ingredient is Histamine Dihydrochloride. It is over the counter at CVS. Besides the addiction issue there is an increased chance of her falling.
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EssieMarie, we tried pretty much everything for my 95-year-old mother's arthritis pain. From Celebrex to hydrocodone to PT to morphine and nothing was helping, or at least for very long. After hearing from one of the former nursing staff at her ALF on how well it worked for this woman's grandfather, I sought out CBD oil. I'll admit I was pretty skeptical and worried about trying it. I spoke with her doctor to make sure it wouldn't interfere with anything she was taking, and was told blood pressure meds were about the only bad interaction. While my mom isn't on any of those, she is on Lasix for CHF. A 20 mg dose around noon seems to keep her out of pain, has helped with her cognitive issues, and has mostly stopped the sundowning. There's no THC in it, but unfortunately, it's not regulated. If you decide to try it, my best advice is to start with small doses.

And if you're not happy with how it's working with the NP, try another. A second opinion never hurts. Sending hugs!
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CarolGinger Jan 2020
What brand of CBD do you buy?
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Would a lidocaine patch be strong enough to relieve her pain? Or a cortisone shot?
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cherokeegrrl54 Jan 2020
Probably not the Otc ones. But the dr could prescribe the 7% prescription strength. My daughter is in the Army and thats what shes been prescribed after suffering a hip injury during deployment. Shes been in iraq three times and Afghanistan twice. It did help her some with pain because she didnt want to take pain meds...
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I got the same nonsense from my mom's doc about addiction. Having said that, addiction is real and withdrawal is a nightmare. But legitimate pain should be treated. My mom broke a vertebrae and was in agony and the doc gave me the song and dance about addiction and I wanted to strangle him. So I basically said what can you give her? And most importantly, the nurse at her ALF talked to him as did the head med tech so then he gave her a fentanyl patch. That is strong stuff and imho way more addictive than percocet but whatever. She did have problems on the fentanyl with auditory hallucinations and being out of sorts and I so wanted to switch her back to pills and the doc just wouldn't budge. She did adjust though and now I'm wanting to decrease her fentanyl because I think she's doing much better and I don't want her to develop a tolerance. Her bones are dust so its a matter of time before she breaks another one and if she's already tolerant it will take so much more pain medicine to get her comfortable. Guess what doc says, NO he wants to keep her at the higher dose because he's worried about her pain. Ugh. Neither of us likes her doctor but I can't get her out and he does do housecalls so we're sort of stuck. So I'm mostly venting but try to see if doc will prescribe something else that THEY are more comfortable with. Also try to get someone else to advocate for you - the PT, a visiting nurse, anyone but you sometimes will help.
Good luck
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CarolGinger Jan 2020
Aactually, research has proven that less than 2% of those prescribed opioids become addicted. Most of what you read in the media are lies and exaggerations. A good indication a person will not develop an addiction, besides their history, is whether they feel relieved of the pain or whether they experience a 'high'. If they feel a high, it's likely they will ask for more and could possibly develop an addiction. But in someone who's older and/or dying, it's more important to relieve their pain.
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My Papa is 92 and has chronic pain issues, in addition to Parkinson’s and pain from dozens of falls. His family doctor took him off his pain medicine, which is insane. He said that, unless you are a Pain Management Specialist, you will “warned” by the government if you prescribe opioids. So the elderly get to suffer. Same with benzodiazepines, like Xanax.

Since bursitis is caused by inflammation, ask her doctor about an anti-inflammatory. That sound make a significant difference. I take one twice a day, I was really surprised at how much it helped.
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cherokeegrrl54 Jan 2020
Yes but NSAIDS can be dangerous for the elderly. I agree thst the drs are so afraid of getting their license pulled for trying to take care of their pts in chronic pain, its ridiculous. Now everyone has to go to pain management. How many of our elderly folks suffer needlessly??? IMHO, its inexcusable!
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Every single person's 'pain' is THEIR pain--just b/c you came home from a surgery and needed only Tylenol and it was effective DOES NOT mean that everyone has that same kind of pain tolerance. Chronic pain takes the absolute soul out of you--when you can only lay in bed and cannot walk, exercise--even get UP b/c the pain from whatever is so bad--then why would your dr withhold an opiate? Keeping the pain cycle under control is the goal of most caring doctors. Once it's out of control it takes a long time to get it 'back'.

And yes, drug addicts and 'street dealers' are still getting their stuff. The 'war on opiates' has been an epic fail. You know who abuses drugs more than anyone? People in the healthcare field. Drs and nurses---anesthesiologists are the 'worst'. And I know this b/c my DIL IS an anesthesiologist and when she goes to conferences--this ALWAYS comes up.

I have to see my PCP every 3 months to renew my scrip for Tylenol 3. I have arthritis in every joint in my body. Ibuprofen has caused me to have some kidney function issues and my PCP is very judicious in prescribing. I WAS on Norco until 2 back surgeries fixed the back problems, but the arthritis is a lifelong problem and isn't getting better. B/c it's throughout my whole body, covering myself in some gel or putting cold packs on the 'sore spots' and trying to function on Tylenol alone? I'd spend everyday, all day chasing down the 'hotspots'.

Nobody's pain is like mine and mine is not like someone else's. I wish we didn't even have to have these discussions. I'm 100% functional and feel capable of doing in a day what needs doing.

I won't live to 90, but I HOPE I will be allowed to manage my pain with the compassionate care of a good dr. Arthritis does NOT 'get better' as we age.
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cherokeegrrl54 Jan 2020
Thank you, Midkid, you took the words right outta my mouth!! Im in your shoes regarding the arthritis all over so i sure understand! Hope you are continuing to recover your strength and are feeling much better each day.,,Liz
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Essie,

I do not see a reply where you mention where Mum has bursitis. I have had it in my right hip for 5+ years, when it flares up, I must walk funny and I get a flare up of Achilles tendonitis in my left ankle. Flare ups last up to 6 weeks and I treat them with Ibuprofen. Large doses that were approved by an Orthopedic Surgeon.

All medication needs to be reviewed by attending physicians, none of us here know what other medications Mum is taking, nor what medical conditions would preclude some treatment options.

Voltaren is OTC here in Canada, and it helps with the Achilles Tendonitis, but cannot get deep into my hip joints.

There has been discussion by prior posters about the benefits of heat or cold. I worked for physiotherapists for 11 years. Although the general rule of thumb is cold for inflammation, it does not apply in all cases. Some people tense up when cold is put on them, defeating the purpose. Many people respond well to alternating cold and hot packs.

Mum is a volunteer in our local hospital. A couple years ago she met an elderly (probably younger then Mum) woman who had become addicted to Oxycodin, post hip replacement. She was in a terrible state, trying to deal with withdrawals.
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You should try CBD oil. My Dad, 87 years old, has taken it for his bursitis. He helped while other medications didn’t.
There is no THC in this oil. I hope this helps! My dad takes it every night to help him sleep. He is in an assisted living facility. It has helped him to not be so anxious. He also has dementia. His cardiologist and primary care said it was fine for him to take it.
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Geaton777 Jan 2020
The OP's mom's doctor needs to clear her for adding anything to her regimen. CBD oil is still a chemical compound and has the potential to interact with other medications she's on.
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Norco is a combo drug of acetominophen and hydrocodone. Usually it is administered every 4-6 hours to manage moderate to severe pain. Does mom get Tylenol (acetaminophen) or another NSAID (non -narcotic over the counter pain med) on a regular schedule to manage her bursitis? Have you tried analgesic creams? I use Voltaren cream 1% (prescription medication) for my arthritis when it flares up.

Seems a pain management doctor referral would be a good start. He/she can try other non-narcotic approaches: oral prescription meds, prescription creams or gels, steroids, heat/cold applications... He/she could also help you with finding the best dosing schedule for mom's narcotic.

The problem all health care practitioners must consider with older patients is that narcotics can decrease respiration and older folks clear medications much more slowly than younger folks. That is probably the reluctance your NP has to adding more narcotics to your mom's regimen.

Just wondering, does mom live with you or in a facility? If in a facility, they keep the narcs under lock and key. If mom lives with you, please keep her meds secured.
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Yeah. So now patients are victimized by the insanity and the pain is left inadequately treated. I would be tempted to tell the nurse she will be more worried about malpractice for not treating the patients pain! Just kidding. I'd be checking to see if there is a pain management dept of the closest large medical facility. Or touch base with a hospice program. This is the stuff that makes me crazy.
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cherokeegrrl54 Jan 2020
Well this kinda crap pisses me off because so many elderly(and not so elderly) are suffering needlessly. Im not advocating opioids for all, but drs wont even attempt to help anymore. Just refer everyone to pain management. Just another sham!!
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As a retired NP, I am embarrassed with the response from your mom's NP.
My sister is on Meloxicam (RX) for severe arthritis of her knee. She remains ambulatory. Might ask her NP/PCP to consider/try it.
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Ann2710 Jan 2020
Yes, I had bursitis in both hips for about 1 1/2 years..I was prescribed meloxicam. I also used ice on my hips, at 94 she may not tolerate an ice pack but it was a great relief.
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I would request a referral to a pain management doctor.

They will actually treat her pain.
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Id like to suggest looking into Hospice pain management care,Hospice is Not just for people on there way out..its About Being Pain free and comfortable, My Family member(80yrs) has been on Hospice care,and has Medications for use to manage the Pain..What I've noticed that helps So much is Atavan..it helps to relax her..Hope my suggestion helps.
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It makes me so angry that people and especially the elderly are under treated for pain. I’m a retired registered nurse and full time caregiver for my husband who suffers with Multiple Sclerosis and chronic pain. First: is Mom getting any anti inflammatory meds—Aleve, Advil, Ibuprofen? These are all OTC. Inflammation is a major cause of pain in bursitis, so these can help a lot, and can be taken with Norco (2 tabs daily is useless). Second: stop the heating pad and switch to cold packs 15 minutes on/ 15 minutes off. Heat only aggravates the inflammation. Third: People who are using opioids to treat physical pain (and not to get high) do not become addicts! And I agree, at 94 years old, so what? Finally: consider getting Hospice/Palliative care at home. They are much better about managing pain as they’re goal is comfort care. They don’t flip out over giving opiates. I had my ML on hospice for several years. (She died at home last March at 98 years old.) I hope this is helpful to you and your Mom. Warm regards.
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TNtechie Jan 2020
I had a problem with the PCP doctor discontinuing pain medication for my 87 year old father with osteoporosis living in MC. I asked how he was suppose to abuse the time released OxyContin when he never had more than a single dose delivered as prescribed by the MC staff - at that point he had been on the same low 5mg dose for over 3 years. The PCP stated because my father was only taking 2 doses a day 12 hours apart he didn't really need the medication at all since a therapeutic dosage was every 6 hours. Fortunately, his heart specialist wrote a new script when he heard about it.
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If your mother has been diagnosed with bursitis by an orthopedist, why didn’t he give her a cortisone injection in the joint affected? That and/or physical therapy is the usual treatment.
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I feel for you. No one wants to see their loved one, in pain.

You're right, she's 94. Give her, what she wants. The Dr might be covering his/her butt, by "over" prescribing.

Have you tried OTC patches? I'm an in home caregiver & my client swears by "Salon Pas" patches (sold everywhere but best buy is at Costco). Also, Lidocaine patches 4% is OTC. So is Aspercreme patches.

My client also swears by Vinegar. She applies it liberally to her feet. (Takes away her restless leg pain) She also wears sweat bands on her wrists, to help with pain in her wrists & hands & fingers (just regular ol' sweat bands. We got a whole pack of different colors on Amazon) So cheap but they work (for her)

She's also on Tramadol but still needs these other products.

You name it, she's tried it. She's 92

Hope this helps.
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It's a problem bc she IS 94. It's the respiratory breathing issue that could arise even with what she is already taking. Increasing her dosage could be problematic depending on how she is doing otherwise...flu, infection,etc.

Dof is more worried about in this case your mom's breathing than addiction worries
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I agree with the diclofenac and CBD creams. You can also ask for a palliative referral. A NP from a pal care agency is more comfortable usually with pain and symptom management. They make house calls one or 2 times a month.
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NTWH has mentioned diclofenac sodium gel for bursitis. I have bursitis in my foot and found that CBD lotion helped more for it than the prescription gel. Also I now take 2000mg turmeric daily which is helpful for bursitis and the pain in my foot which made it hard to walk, is much more manageable. Just a thought.
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Good point about addiction and withdrawal cwillie. My husband was on norco for years because of a significantly herniated disc in his lower back and last October, workman’s comp decided he had been on it long enough so the pain management doctor refused to keep prescribing it. The first few weeks were horrible because of the withdrawl. I didn’t realize it until much later that it wasn’t the pain causing certain things, it was withdrawl effects. I can only go by what i witnessed and what my husband experienced but it does not seem that doctors care much. They did cut back my husbands monthly allotment of norco for a month or two and then cut him off completely. And they didn’t give him anything else until he started pleading for anything—not opioids but anything to help with the excruciating pain. Pain so bad he spent most of his days laying face down in bed because the pain was so bad and that position was the only one that he tolerate. He was given muscle relaxants which made him sleep but didn’t touch the pain. Prescription strength Advil which was the same as 4 OTC Advils. Patches. He even tried a TENS machine. Nothing helped.

And as far why patients are left suffering in pain.....that is America for you. Sure there are definitely doctors that are overprescribing but the solution isn’t to cut off people with documented painful conditions. Unfortunately what is happening in this country is that people are being cut off from opioids and left to suffer debilitating pain and what is happening is that many of them suffer until they can’t take it anymore and they commit suicide.

I can understand why doctors are afraid to prescribe opioids these days but.....cutting people off isn’t the answer. Most people who OD on them obtained them illegally in the first place.
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Isthisrealyreal Jan 2020
And studies show that it is on 7% of the prescribed users that are a problem.

Punishing the other 93% is just like our over reactive powers that be.

Laws only change when a lawmaker is affected personally.
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NTWH -
Yes, all OTC meds all have dosing levels and precautions that need to be heeded, that definitely needs to be considered.
And I agree that opiates have too often been given pro forma when other meds could do the job just as well - neither myself or my BIL came home with a script for any opiates after surgery, and we were just fine.
I too wondered if addiction and withdrawal could be behind at least a part of the OP's mother's distress - the thing is I don't think this is the appropriate way to tackle the over prescription of opiates, what gain can there be in withholding meds for a person this age no matter why she has come to depend on them?
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To the people recommending OTC pain meds, just because it's OTC doesn't mean it's safe. It depends on the person taking them. Some of you have recommended NSAIDs. For someone elderly, a NSAID may not be safe due to other issues. Acetaminophen is generally safer but you really have to watch the dose. Acetaminophen is in a lot of drugs you don't even think it's in. For the elderly, the maximum dose per day is lower than the adult dose for someone younger. Even with OTC drugs, it's best to check with a doctor to make sure it's safe for that person.

OP, in this case talk to your mom's NP about diclofenac sodium gel. It's a topical NSAID for joint pain relief. Because it's topical, the medication isn't distributed systematically through out the body. Thus the concerns about using NSAIDs are greatly reduced. That is as long as the area it's applied to isn't overly large.
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bluefinspirit Jan 2020
You are absolutely correct! Just because it's OTC doesn't mean it's safe. I was one of the people suggesting an NSAID as an option because they work pretty well as an anti-inflammatory. However, my mom, for one, can't take them because she's on a blood thinner. Acetaminophen isn't great for people with liver disease. As always... consult your doctor!
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